It's so true, children are a reflection of their parents & we can often see ourselves in them. There are certain times during the day when there is more stress- getting 4 kids out the door in the morning to school, finishing homework in time for bed, etc. I have been struggling with getting frustrated & then end up getting impatient with the kids. This morning I made an effort to be calm, and it worked right away- they were better behaved. I knew this, but I haven't been able to make the effort- I have been reacting to situations, instead of taking the time to think about what to do.