New Year resolutions

This year will be a year of preparing for moving. We won't move this year, but we will be actively working toward preparing for it. When we first decided to stay in May 2006, we thought we would only stay for 1 or 2 years. But it couldn't be rushed. There are things that we had to go through to bring us to where we are now.
There are many things I know I will miss: living close by my family (not everyone gets to have almost their whole family in one city). But I will not miss the family feuds, misunderstanding, hurt feelings, arguements. It's sad that so much time has to be taken up with that, but I guess that happens in families.
But I think my perspective has changed a little knowing that this is the last year here. I won't take things so close to heart. At the end of this year I want to look back & be happy & not feel that it was all wasted fighting.
So this year I will be setting goals & make changes towards that.